{"id":495,"date":"2012-07-25T23:21:43","date_gmt":"2012-07-25T21:21:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shaareihoraah.org\/wordpress\/?p=495"},"modified":"2012-07-25T23:21:43","modified_gmt":"2012-07-25T21:21:43","slug":"havdala-when-tisha-bav-is-delayed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shaareihoraah.org\/?p=495","title":{"rendered":"Havdala when Tisha b\u2019Av is Delayed"},"content":{"rendered":"

For the first time in 14 years, Tisha b\u2019Av falls out on a Shabbos\u00a0this week, and the fast is delayed until Sunday. Since a proper Havdala\u00a0on a cup of wine cannot be recited on Motzei\u00a0Shabbos\u00a0due to the fast, the relevant Halachos are somewhat complicated. While the same issues arise when Tisha B\u2019Av falls directly on Sunday, it is uncommon enough of an occurrence that many people are uncertain regarding exactly what to do.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The ideal procedure is to delay the cup of wine and Berachos\u00a0of Borei\u00a0Pri\u00a0HaGafen\u00a0and Hamavdil\u00a0until Sunday night. While anyone not reciting Atah\u00a0Chonantanu\u00a0in Ma\u2019ariv must say Baruch HaMavdil\u00a0immediately on Motzei\u00a0Shabbos\u00a0before doing any action forbidden on Shabbos, a proper Havdala\u00a0can be delayed until later in the week. However, at that time the introductory Pesukim\u00a0are not recited and one commences directly from Borei\u00a0Pri\u00a0HaGafen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Since Borei\u00a0Me\u2019orei HaEish can only be recited on Motzei\u00a0Shabbos, it is said independently. Generally, this is done in Shul\u00a0immediately following Ma\u2019ariv and prior to Eicha. Women, or anyone else not attending Shul\u00a0should certainly make an effort to hear Borei\u00a0Me\u2019orei HaEish; however, there are differing opinions whether a woman may say this\u00a0Bracha herself. Consequently, some Poskim\u00a0suggest that a married man should not intend to fulfill his obligation with the Bracha\u00a0in Shul, rather he should wait until returning home and say it for his wife as well. If for any reason the Beracha\u00a0on the candle was not recited Motzei\u00a0Shabbos, it may not be said later.<\/span><\/p>\n

Borei\u00a0Mini Besamim\u00a0is not recited at all. On Motzei\u00a0Shabbos\u00a0it is not appropriate to indulge in luxurious fragrances due to the solemnity of Tisha b\u2019Av, and Sunday night is already too late, as Besamim\u00a0is also only utilized when Havdala\u00a0is recited on Motzei\u00a0Shabbos.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Family members who find it difficult to wait for the head of the household to return home from Shul\u00a0following the conclusion of Tisha b\u2019Av should make their own Havdala, or in the case of women, try to hear it at a neighbor\u2019s home. If this is not feasible, there are grounds to permit drinking before hearing Havdala, though they should refrain from eating if possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Someone very ill who must eat on Tisha b\u2019Av at night, should recite Havdala\u00a0on Motzei\u00a0Shabbos, including the Bracha\u00a0on the cup and the candle. However, Besamim\u00a0is omitted as well as the introductory Pesukim. He can even exempt the other members of his family, and they will not be required to hear Havdala a second time Sunday night. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he does not need to eat before Sunday morning, he should wait to say Havdala\u00a0until then, and must remember to make a Bracha\u00a0on the fire separately, just like everyone else. Preferably he should use beer or brewed coffee and not wine or grape juice since it is Tisha b\u2019Av, but if there is no alternative he must only drink the minimal quantity necessary.<\/span><\/p>\n

If a woman needs to eat on Tisha b\u2019Av, her husband should recite the Havdala as above, and give the cup to her to drink.<\/span><\/p>\n

A child under Bar Mitzva\u00a0who is not fasting need not recite Havdala\u00a0before eating. Since when he grows older he will fast, there is no Mitzva\u00a0of Chinuch to teach him do something he will not continue observing later.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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